There are often times we wish we could fix the problems of a friend or the pain of a loved one. Many times we’ve tried. We’ve offered solutions. We’ve attempted to make the counseling appointment for them. Our intentions are good. We want to see our family member happy again, or we want the best for our neighbor. But what if there’s another way. What if fixing the hurt is not our role? What if they need comfort rather than critique? What if they need our empathy more than our